Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Very Inspiring Blogger Award!

So apparently Bitch is a Lifestyle thinks I'm a very inspiring blogger! Which of course is a huge compliment coming from a fellow blogger! Anyway, like most things, there are rules. I know, always a catch somewhere right? Some of which I listed below. So, let's get started!


                      First rule: State 7 things about yourself:

I am a Christian woman who believes in God. I was raised in a Christian home but haven't always done the best job at raising my own children with the same strict Christian beliefs. I'm working on changing that. I've lost my way several times over the years but have always turned back to Christ. He is my rock, my salvation and has blessed me in more ways then I can even count.

I LOVE LOVE LOVE the beach! Anyone who knows me, knows this is my favorite place to be. Something about the ocean, the sand, the waves...just ALL of it. Except the parking. The parking is a b*tch most of the time. Anyway, I digress. I find it to be serene, healing and one of the most peaceful places on earth.

I have FOUR children who keep me VERY busy! Oldest daughter is 15, second daughter is 10, my son is 9 and my youngest daughter is 6. Geesh, how do I keep that straight? hahaha

 
Aren't they precious?

Recently, I've taken on a new outlook and have been trying to live a healthy lifestyle. I've learned A LOT about fruits, veggies, grains, vitamins, minerals, seeds, juicing, smoothies, refined sugars, good carbs, bad carbs etc...the list goes on and on.

I've been married twice. Once was to my oldest daughters dad and the other was to the father of my youngest 3. I learned a lot from both marriages. There were a lot of good times but plenty of "what the hell am I doing to myself" times as well. Second marriage was more friendly and felt like we were 2 roommates living together than a husband and wife. I could write an entire 3 part blog on that subject alone!

I've had 4 serious surgeries. The first one was when I was 16 y/o and my appendix ruptured. 18 years ago they didn't have or often use laser. Nope, I still have a pretty little scar on the right side of my stomach. Next two  were c-sections with the two youngest kids. The last one was when I got a major staph infection a week after having my youngest daughter. Apparently the incision got infected while I was in the hospital so I had to go back in and have ANOTHER surgery to remove the infected tissue. Gross, I know. Hope no one was eating when reading this.

I love talking to people. Listening to their ideas, opinions, what they like etc. I find it so fascinating how we all work and think so differently but yet all still have so much in common. This can be a curse though. Because then I feel like I might become too interested and then my crazy brains start working overtime wondering what? how? why? when? (I'm getting excited just thinking about it!)

So now I'm supposed to list 15 other bloggers for this award. Here are 15 of my favorite blogs for all various reasons. Some have great giveaways, some are pee your pants funny, some are inspirational and make you do some soul searching; while some have great recipes and encourage healthly living. Others just bring a smile to my face with their post, pictures and comments. I hope you enjoy them as much as I do =)


Life of a Spinster Broad

Holdin' Holden

SooperDad Blog of Awesomeness

Life songs of a busy mom

Stay Beautiful Within

I want a dumpster baby

Change one thing

That's It Mommy

Dad or Alive

All for my boy

Random thoughts and lotsa coffee

The Detailed Decorator LLC

Mom-troversial

So you think you can mom

Healthy & Fit Mama







    Saturday, April 27, 2013

    Mother's Day Colossal Giveaway

    The "mother" of all Mother's Day giveaways! 

    I'm so excited to be able to bless one very lucky mother with a boat load of prizes this Mother's Day!
    Blessing others is so important to me, and I am so very grateful for all the wonderful vendors who donated their time and products for this giveaway! Thank you all so very very much!
    Also, a HUGE thank you to Give Oh Giveaway and Diary Of A Not So Wimpy Mom for co-hosting this giveaway!

    One very lucky lady will win everything you see below!!!
    The Limitless Gratitude Ultimate Gift ($169.99)
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    Cents Of Style E-Gift Card ($50.00)
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    Rodan+Fields By Tracey Cecchetti Independent Consultant 
    Personalized Skincare Set ($193.00)
     A custom set according to your personal skin type. The kit includes a wash, toner, treatment/moisturizer, and sunscreen.
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     Kuhn's Jewelers
    Sterling Silver 5-10mm White and Grey Freshwater Cultured Pearl with Rock Crystal with 8" bracelet. ($175.00)
    Explore your identity with chic mixtures of Sterling Silver, Freshwater Pearls and Gemstones with our Skinny Jeans Collection. 
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    Unwined Candles 3 Candle Gift Set ($65.00)
      Unwined Candles will be giving away a 3 candle gift set to one lucky Mom! A Grapefruit, Summer of '69 and a 5O'Clock Somewhere candle will come to you in one of our rustic inspiredgift boxes. Made from reused wine bottles, all-natural soy wax, and infused with relaxing scents, Unwined Candles are sure to please! "Everyday is a great day to Unwined".
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    Mary Kay TimeWise Trial Miracle Set ($44.00)
    The set offers:
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    Scentsy (by Natalee DeYoung) Mother's Day Warmer and Sugar Cookie wax bar ($40.00)
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    Talk To The Heel Tokyo "Passport To Happy Feet" Kit ($19.50)
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    Click HERE to visit SebaMed

    Toxic Sass Gift Card ($50.00)
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    12 Pair of Eyedews Under Eye Gel Pads ($40.00)
    Gentle and natural, this all-in-one single-step regimen effectively corrects all that plagues your delicate under-eye skin. Eyedews are nutrient rich jelly pads of Natural Marine Collagen Infused with Hyaluronic Acid, Chitosan and Vitamins C & E  to combat free radical imbalance, sun damage, discoloration, dry skin and wrinkles in the troubled skin under your eyes.  This single use under eye treatment will soothe and smooth your beauty woes, and relax and return you to a more energized, youthful state.
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    Maddyloo Mini Heart Box ($15.00)
    The Maddyloo Mini Heart Box is the perfect gift for that someone special on your list.  Available in fourteen different color themes, each adorable heart-shaped box contains seven hair ties guaranteed to make your heart skip a beat.   The Maddyloo no-crease hair ties are the cutest solution for pulling your hair back with enough elastic to keep a ponytail in place, but wide enough to not leave a dent. From camouflage and metallic to rhinestone and tie dyed, Maddyloo has found a way to marry function with beautiful eye (or wrist) candy.   A heart-warming gift this Mother’s Day season, the Maddyloo Mini Heart Box is a great way to show how much you truly care; it’s a gift after her own heart. 
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    Velvet Pearl Gift Card ($25.00)
    Velvet Pearl has searched near & far to create a unique collection of apparel& accessories to tickle your fancy.
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    1 Wrap by It Works! Wraps Jeneid Independent Distributor/It Works Global ($25.00)
    The It Works Ultimate Body Applicator is a non-woven cloth wrap that hasbeen infused with powerful botanically-based ingredients that make up aformula that delivers maximum tightening, toning and firming where applied to the skin. You can expect "ultimate" results from this applicator within 45 minutes!
    Click HERE to visit Diamond Wraps
     Bomshell Boutique Beaded Turquoise Set ($42.00)
    Click HERE to visit Bomshell Boutique
    Nest Boutique Gift Certificate ($30.00)
    Click HERE to visit Nest Boutique
    Entangled Bliss Custom Hand Stamped Mother Necklace ($32.00)
    Click HERE to visit Entangled Bliss
    Toppik Hair Building Fibers and Spray Applicator ($66.90)
    Toppik Hair Building Fibers is made of all natural, colored keratin protein, in which the fibers blend perfectly with your existing hair, instantly making it look fuller. Toppik blends naturally with hair and conceals scalp, thinning hair, balding spots, etc. It is rain, wind and sweat resistant.
     Toppik Spray Applicator allows precise application of Toppik into thinning areas. Ideal for the hairline, which allows a controlled, fine mist that will diffuse naturally  over the hair and scalp.
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    Vantel Pearls by Jen Will 18" White Strand Pearl Necklace ($189.00)
    Vantel Pearls by Jen Will is honored to treat a mom to such a wonderful piece of pearl jewelry!!!
     If you have never experienced opening an oyster to find a pearl inside, you're missing out. Jen does home parties where you get to open oysters and then choose a setting from the catalog to have your special pearl mounted! This is an amazing experience, and all while shopping, Vantel Pearls is giving back to our community and making a difference in someone else!
    Click HERE to visit Vantel Pearls by Jen Will
    8 x 8 x 1 1/2 inch canvas by Lisa Leo on Etsy ($45.00)
    This is an 8 x 8 x 1 1/2 inch canvas you can hang on the wall or set on a shelf, mantel, etc. Collage includes vintage page from an art students journal, feather, Egyptian stamp. The background is painted and layered with some textured detail and also lightly antiqued.
    Click HERE to visit Lisa Leo on Etsy
    Steeped Tea with Allison Tea Set ($29.00)
    The original tea collection. 6 of the original teas sold plus an infuser and perfect measuring spoon.
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    Bella Grace Boutique Monogrammed Necklace ($69.99)
    18" GF necklace with your monogram engraved.
    Click HERE to visit Bella Grace Boutique
    Thirty-one Thermal Tote in Painted Floral Print ($18.00)
    This Thermal Tote is perfect for taking your lunch to work, snacks on the run or keeping a couple drinks cold during a day on the town.  Valued at $18, it will keep your food cold (or hot) throughout your busy day.  You don't have to hide this thermal bag - it's cute enough, you might just decide to carry it as your purse!'
    Click HERE to visit Thirty-one with Rebekah Nolt
    Perfectly Pink Paisley Wooden Earring Holder ($18.00)
    Click HERE to visit Whimsy Woodcrafts
    Deco-Rate It Deco Mesh Wreath ($46.95)
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    City Lips Advanced Lip Plumpig Formula in "Sundiego" ($40.00)
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    Grand $ Total: $1,639.29!!!!!

    This colossal giveaway is open to all US residents, ages 18 and over.

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    Thursday, April 11, 2013

    Adventures at Pretend City!

    I'm always looking for fun places to take my kids on the weekend. Some place where everyone (even the teenager) can enjoy the day and have a good time. My 9 y/o son wanted to go Pretend City. He's been there once before and has been begging me to go back! How could I say no, right? I mean, he's the only boy amongst 3 sisters and a mom. Let the boy have his birthday where he wants! So, last Saturday, that's exactly what we did. We headed down the 5fwy exited Bake in Irvine and arrived at Pretend City. I didn't reserve their party room since there were only a few of us going. Although, I might do that for the next party. YES, I'm going back!

    Anyway, once we arrived and got our tickets, the kids took off and scattered. The staff or "Pretendgineers" as they call them, were so great. Everyone was super friendly and especially helpful in the arts and crafts room. Below are a few (okay fine, SEVERAL) pictures of our day there.


    Welcome to Pretend City
    Getting help in the Art room

    
    
    Oh my, that's paint! ahhhh
    
    The staff was SO helpful
    
    It's a mini Ralphs! How cute is this?!

    
    Jenna inside Ralphs being the checker.
    
     
    Lifting 'weights'
      
    It's the birthday boy. A strong one too!

    

    This is the full serivce Pizzaria. Jenna is serving her cousins and older sister. Jacob, my 15 y/o nephew is Autistic and he LOVES the enviroment Pretend City provides
      
     
    Cute little farm where you plant "pretend" veggies and fruit.
    What? Big kids can have fun too!
    
    
    See! Even big kids can have fun too =)

    

    She would kill me if she saw this! haha (evil laugh)
    They have a stage where kids can create their own music
    and put on a show!
    They have a gift store so you can bring the imagination home
    This is SO cute! They do a parade right before closing.
    They collect all the instruments and play music and walk
    around Pretend City. Matthew go to be the line leader since
    it was his birthday.
    
    Building area
    
    Every city needs a post office.



    We had such a great day at Pretend City. The staff is great, the place was clean and resonably priced and above all Matthew had an awesome birthday! To follow them on FB or to get a list of events go to their Facebook page: Pretend City on Facebook

    Friday, February 8, 2013

    Cleansing, fasting and living on veggies and fruit juice

    I know, it's sounds extreme and in actuality it was. The idea of not eating for more then a few hours was a lot to take in, let alone DAYS! So how did I come to this decision you ask? Well it started with me seeing a post from my friend on FB that he was doing this cleanse. I've seen them before and of course I never thought I could do one. Not only that I couldn't do it, but that I thought they were unhealthy and just a quick weight loss thing and once you went back to eating normal you would gain it all back. I soon proved myself wrong.

    This one was different. You actually have SO many micro nutrients (I just learned that fancy health word...lol) that flood your body it's nearly impossible to think you're starving or depriving yourself. Did I miss food? Yes, a little, but not to the point where I wanted to run out and eat a cheeseburger. Even coffee and diet soda, 2 things I LOVE weren't going to be part of my daily routine anymore. I was actually happy about this. I had always told myself that if I could quit smoking that I could do anything. That was the hardest thing I've done.

    So, I did my research and watched "Fat, sick and nearly dead" www.fatsickandnearlydead.com on Netflix. You can find it on Hulu too if that's easier. I was immediately inspired to try this juicing and help rid my body of harmful toxins, cut cravings for sugary carbs, coffee and fast food. I had also watched a few videos from Dan McDonald "The Life Regenerator" www.regenerateyourlife.org on Youtube. I just love Dan; he's great! I highly recommend watching both of these before starting your cleanse. They're both inspiring and gave me a lot of info about juicing and raw foods.

    I ended up doing my fast (or cleanse depending on what you call it) for four days. Here's a basic idea of how each day went. Oh, and let me add that I started introducing  juiced veggies and fruit into my daily diet a few days prior to the fast. To me, or at least in my own head, this was preparing my body for what was coming.

    Day 1 - Saturday morning

    I started on a weekend that I didn't have my three younger kids. I did this on purpose because I didn't know how I was going to respond.

    I didn't get my normal 24oz coffee with 5 creamers and 2 Splendas. Instead, I drank water and headed over to the juicer I had just bought a week prior. I was excited, nervous, hopeful and honestly a little confused on how in the heck this thing worked!

    I gathered my apples, kiwi, broccoli, carrots, celery, kale and spinach and laid it all out. Once I figured out how to put all the pieces together I just started putting stuff in one at a time. I would stop and test it along the way to see if I thought it needed more of something and if it did I tossed it in the tube and pushed it down the hatch!

    Green veggie juice

      The day went pretty well until about 2pm when the caffeine withdraws took over. This is when my headache from hell started in. I had been out at the mall shopping for a dress for my oldest daughter all day. By the time we came home I wanted to crash. I wasn't out of energy really, but the headache was enough to make me want to lay down. Long story short....I took some Advil, drank more juice and water and laid down. I continued to drink another cup of juice while we watched movies and then went to bed. That was that. I survived day 1!! Whooo hooo I was thrilled!

    Day 2 - Sunday

    I woke up Sunday morning and felt very relaxed. I can only think that must have been from the lack of caffeine in my system. It was very surreal actually; not something I'm normally used to.
    Again, I was up and ready to hit the juicer. This time I made some green tea to help reduce any headaches I might get during the day. I basically juiced the same fruits and veggies again and drank about 3-4 16oz containers throughout the day. I had made plans to go to my sisters that day to visit her and my mom. I was really worried about what might happen being at someone else's house. Especially my sisters because she has soooo many good snacks! I'm happy to report I made it through the visit and drank only my juice!

    That night I went home and juiced more veggies and fruit for the next day. Since I had work on Monday I wanted to make sure I was prepared. At this point I was still feeling pretty good. I was struggling a little with missing food. As I've come to realize it was never really about the food but I'll get into that a bit later. I had made it through day 2 and was feeling good. I was however worried about day 3. Most everyone I had talked to about this cleanse and who had done it themselves, warned me about day 3. They said it was the hardest day. That if I just got through day 3 I would be good to go.

    
    Beet and greens juice
    
    Day 3 - Monday

    Monday morning I woke up feeling great again! Rested and ready to take on the day. Well, sorta...I was still a little freaked out thinking something awful was going to happen on this dreaded day 3. I got up, got ready, made my juice and out the door I went. The morning part felt pretty much the same as day 1 and 2. The afternoon is where I started feeling a little funky. By funky I mean out of it, spacey, euphoric, calm. It was almost like this floating feeling. It's really hard to put into words if you haven't felt it before. Regardless, I drank on! Had my veggie juice and even some really delicious pineapple, carrot and apple one I made. It almost felt like a little treat. Day 3 is when I was really starting to notice the lack of actual food and how much my body was having this internal battle with my mind and emotions. I felt as if I was in this constant argument of having to shut off my mind and ONLY listen to my body. Believe me, listening to your body is not the same listening to your emotions. That night, before bed, I was being tempted in so many ways. Why couldn't I have a little something? No one would know but me? But that's the thing, I would have known and that would have devastated me to know I gave in when I had come so far. I prayed. I prayed a lot. Then I went to bed so that I was tempted anymore.

    Day 4 - Tuesday

    I made it!! I completed all 3 days I committed to. I was happy and feeling great! Day 4 pretty much consisted of the same fruits and veggies as the first 3 did. As great as I felt I was excited to eat again. It wasn't like I was thinking "I can't wait to get my hands on a slice of pizza!" it was more "How can I transition to healthy food?


    Day 5 - Wednesday

    So the fast is over with and today I started to introduce solid food back into my diet. I had salad with grilled chicken. I also had 2 avocados throughout the day along with my juice. It was kind of an odd feeling to chew the first time. I know it was only a few days but still! It was long enough for my mouth to be like "Oh we're chewing again?"

    I will continue to juice (as I have the last two days) along with making healthy eating choices. I can't stress enough how amazed I was that I had lost all my cravings. I didn't want the bread, snacks and fast food crap. I didn't even crave my coffee anymore. I don't plan on going back to that or soda either.

    Helpful hints:

    * Drink lots and lots of water

    * The first two days your bowels will be moving and grooving. Be prepared

    * Day 3 & 4 it will slow down. You might need to drink some  Apple Cider Vinegar to keep  things moving.
        (A friend of mine liked a tea called "Smooth Move")

    * Women - I don't recommend starting this a week before your  menstrual cycle or during

    * Banana's don't juice, they puree

    * Buy a decent juicer and enough fruits and veggies to last you 3-5 days  
      (spinach doesn't seem to keep as long as broccoli and kale)


    * Pray/meditate/chant or whatever it is you believe. This isn't only about cleansing internally but you'll feel a need to cleanse emotionally as well. Ask for strength and clarity while cleansing.




    What I learned:

    Even though this wasn't a 5 day, 7 day or even two week cleanse I learned some valuable stuff about myself. I've always known I am an emotional eater. I eat to celebrate, when I'm stressed (man am I a huge stress eater), when I'm bored, when I'm lonely and when I'm sad. Food is supposed to nurture us, not protect us from the things we don't want to face. I said to my aunt "why can't apples be comfort food?" and it's true. I don't know about you but I would much rather reach for a snickers then some apple! Like I mentioned above, one of the hardest things for me was having to compete in a battle of will between my body and my emotions. Physically I felt great; I had everything I needed. I didn't feel starved or deprived. I was actually getting more nutrients then my body has ever had. My mind and emotions however felt deprived. How was I supposed to comfort myself with celery juice?! "Damn it emotions just shut up and let my body do it's thing for once!" I guess when you go without your "pacifier", which in my case happens to be peanut m&m's or Taco Bell, you're forced to feel those emotions. Let me tell you, it ain't always pretty. All in all I got through it. Today I feel great. I feel empowered and excited to continue to do this every day. I've been telling everyone I know how great this is and hope they can give it a try when they're ready.

    Of course, all of the things I've written are my experiences with this cleanse. You might find it harder/easier then I did. I would always check with your doctor first before starting anything like this. Do your research and learn as much as you can through blogs like this and so many others.

    For those of you who have questions for me about what I juiced please feel free to contact me here or on my FB page.